About Us

This Web site was created by people who believe that if you who experience unwanted same-sex attraction, you have options–you don’t have to accept a gay identity. If you want to, you can resolve your same-sex attraction problems. Same-sex attraction is not an inborn and unchangeable condition like some people want you to believe.

This Web site presents options and practical solutions to resolve the personal problems you face. There is hope. We know there are solutions because we have experienced them in our own lives, and there are thousands of people who have found the same success we have. We have developed this Web site to help you experience real change in your life, if that is what you want to do. Our motivation for resolving our same-sex attractions was spiritual, and therefore, we make reference to spiritual aspects of this process of growth out of same-sex attraction. Whatever your motivation may be, it must be strong and constant, since the struggle won’t be easy and will take a while.

Most of the theories, approaches, and ideas on this site relate to men. Much of this information may also be helpful to women who struggle with same-sex attraction and some may not. More research needs to be done on women’s issues to better determine causes and solutions.

Throughout this Web site, we give examples of how people have dealt with particular issues. In all cases, these examples involve real people and real events, although many of the names have been changed to protect identities.